Thursday, January 10, 2013

The Issue of Hijaab in Islam


In Islam, the rights of women are very important and there is no such thing as oppression against them. However, this issue is debated by the West and often portrays a negative view on the treatment of women in Islam. This post will try to expand and clarify the controversial issue of Hijaab that is falsely deemed in the West as oppression in Islam towards women.

The Issue of Hijaab in Islam

The order of Hijaab was revealed by Allah (God) in the Qur'an that the believing women should cover themselves. They should not reveal their beauty and attractiveness in front of men that are permissible to them in marriage. As soon as the ruling was heard, all the women of Muslim households began to cover themselves and it was not that anyone of them were seen without the Hijaab. The order was practiced immediately without coercion. In this manner, allMuslims used to act upon the orders that were revealed. They would seize from doing those actions that they were prohibited from, and this is why they were successful! 

Allah (God) has commanded in the Holy Qur'an:
“O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women to draw their outer garments over their bodies (when outdoors): that is most convenient that they could be known as such (i.e. decent and chaste) and not molested.” (Qur'an 33:59)

The arabic word used in this verse in the Holy Quran is Jalabeeb (plural of Jalbaab), which is the loose outer garment that covers all a woman's body. It says here to use the Jalabeeb to cover all, and scholars say this means to use it to cover her head (agreed upon by all scholars) and her face (agreed by not all scholars).

Note: The Hijaab has also been commanded in other verses of the Qur'an (not just the one shown above). Example: 

"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is aware of what they do. (30) And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands' fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters' sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigour, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed. (31)" (Qur'an 24:30-31)

As well, the Sunnah (Prophetic tradition) expands on the meaning of Hijaab and describe it in more detail. Thus, the obligatory proper dress code for Muslim females includes:
> A covering for the hair (called a Hijaab ). 
> Loose-fitting clothes.
> Long pants or a dress to the ankles and a shirt, gown or blouse that covers to the wrists.
> Excessive makeup and perfume are frowned upon. (Note: Makeup and perfume actually are only supposed to be worn for spouses and not in public as they draw attention and this is not acceptable)

Allah (God) knows the means of strong temptation that women have, so He ordered them to cover themselves in such a manner in order not to cause temptation lest the person in whose heart is a disease should be moved withdesire.

The West classifies the Hijaab as a form of oppression against Muslim women. However, this is far from the truth. If a Muslim women does not abide by this obligatory decree of Allah (God), then it is ultimately her decision. Furthermore, the Hijaab is not just a dress code, it is in the heart. One cannot be forced intoHijaab. Muslim women must observe the Hijab without coercion or force. This is important because the behavior and the way a Muslim women carries herself is just as crucial as the dress code and it is in fact a part of Hijaab

There are also requirements of Muslim men's clothing, however the dress code for men in Islam is not to the same degree as women. This can be explained by looking into what Islam defines as the Awrah. The Awrah refers to the part of the body that should be covered at all times unless there is an expressed exception. The covering of the Awrah is also a condition for thevalidity of prayer for both Muslim men and women. It has been agreed among most jurists on the basis of the Qur'an and Sunnah (Prophetic traditions) that the Awrah for the women is defined as the whole body except for the face and hands. For the man, the Awrah is defined as the area between the navel and the knee. The basic requirements for both Muslim males and females are then the same:
(1) The Awrah should be fully covered.
(2) Clothing should be loose enough so as not to describe what he or she is covering (their Awrah respectively).
(3) Clothing should be thick enough as not to describe the color of the skin or the parts required to be covered.
(4) The basic rule of modesty and avoiding "show off" applies (this includes trying not to attract attention in the form of perfume, designer clothes, etc. in public).

In addition to the above limitations for both Muslim men and women dress codes, men are not allowed to wear silk and gold. This does not apply to women.

A few misconceptions about the Hijaab for women must be cleared for both Muslims and Non-Muslims at this point:
(1) The Hijaab protects women from the harassment of men. 
While this statement is, for the most, part true, the objectification of women has become so strong in today's societies that the women that wear proper Hijaabare not 100% exempt from the treatment other women receive in the public. In fact, a woman who is all “covered up” is sometimes seen as challenge by some men. Still, the Hijaab is generally seen as "off limit" sign, and men don’t know how to approach someone in Hijaab or figure that it is too much "work". May Allah (God) protect all women from the evil intentions of men.

(2) Non-Muslims generally view women that wear Hijaab as a pious women that is committed to God.
This is a statement that is sadly often far from the truth. Muslim women will agree that people often see them in a negative light. They think that she oppressed, she's backwards, she doesn't speak English, her husband/brother/uncle/father made her dress like that, she’s not very educated etc. Some people are repulsed or even afraid! 

It is frequently that only educated Non-Muslims (that have learned about Islam) may not have this initial negative view. Also, it is often that only after a Non-Muslim person gets to know a pious Muslim women that wears the Hijaabaccording to the Qur'an and Sunnah (Prophetic traditions) that they may change their initial negative view and actually start seeing her as one that is striving(see note below) to be religious. It is the responsibility of all Muslims to help Non-Muslims understand this positive real view.

Note: Striving: A Muslim women that happily wears the Hijaab is not free from the constant ups and downs associated with it, however she is consistentlystriving to be strong to fulfill this command of God.

(3) Muslim women wear the Hijaab as a sign of modesty and purity. It is a symbol of their chastity and dignity.
This statement is ideally true, however realistically it may not be. The reason for this is because it has become more prominent that Muslim women are notwearing proper Hijaab (both externally and internally). A Muslim women might be wearing the veil over her head, but everything else is the same as the Non-Muslim next to her. For example she may be wearing tight jeans and then being rude,swearing and cursing people,or flirting with the opposite gender. Unfortunately, the Hijaab has sometimes become more of a "fashion" trend for women and the real purpose has become a side-story. This is not Hijaab. To simply state, the Hijaab is:
> chastity,purity,and shyness
> obedience to our Creator
> a divine obligation

We pray that all Muslim women realize this command of Allah (God) and fulfill it to the requirements set by the Qur'an and Sunnah. For women, being the prominent face of Islam is difficult in this time, we pray that Allah (God) make it easy for those that take up the proper Hijaab and grant them strength.

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Wednesday, January 9, 2013

The months of the Islamic year

In Islam, the calender is based off the lunar cycle. The Islamic year has 12 months like the Gregorian calender. The beginning and end of the lunar months are determined by the sighting of the crescent moon.

Islamic months begin at sunset of the first day, the day when the lunar crescent is visually sighted. The lunar year is approximately 354 days long, so the months rotate backward through the seasons and are not fixed to the Gregorian calendar. The months of the Islamic year are the following:

1. Muharram ("Forbidden")
2. Safar ("Empty" or "Yellow")
3. Rabia Awal ("First spring")
4. Rabia Thani ("Second spring")
5. Jumaada Awal ("First freeze")
6. Jumaada Thani ("Second freeze")
7. Rajab ("To respect")
8. Sha'ban ("To spread and distribute")
9. Ramadan ("Parched thirst" - this is the month of obligatory daytime fasting for those able)
10. Shawwal ("To be light and vigorous")
11. Dhul-Qi'dah ("The month of rest")
12. Dhul-Hijjah ("The month of Hajj" - this is the month of the annual pilgrimage to Makkah [once in a lifetime for those able])

The Islamic Year One started on the first day of the first month of the year of "the Hijrah". The Hijrah is the migration of the Prophet Muhammad from the City of Makkah (after much persecution) to the City of Madinah. This was the major turning point in Islamic history and Madinah was established as the first Islamic state. In Madinah, the Muslim community was able to practice their religion without fear and a matured society was born out of Islamic principles with social, political, and economic independence. 

This year, the 1st of Muharram and the new Islamic year 1433 A.H. ( latin foranno Hegirae or in the Year of the Hijrah ) began on Sunday 27th November 2011. Muslims do not celebrate the start of a new year, rather it is a time of reflection and contemplation for learning from mistakes of the previous year. 
islamic year, moon

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

BEAUTIFUL DUA


 DUA
O ALLAH
Enlighten what is Dark in Me,
Strengthen what is Weak in Me,
Mend what is Broken in Me,
Bind what is Bruised in Me,
Heal what is Sick in Me,
Straighten what is Crooked in Me
and
Revive whatever Peace and Love has Died in Me..!
Aameen"
dua

Monday, January 7, 2013

Dua for Asking Home in Paradise

"My Lord! Build for me a home with You in Paradise''
رَبِّ ابنِ لى عِندَكَ بَيتًا فِى الجَنَّةِ
"Rabbi ibni lee AAindaka baytan fee aljannati "
Aameen ya Rabbaana
[Surah At-Tahreem 66: 11]

dua, hijab

Quran and indeed


quran
SubhanAllah !!

Was Burned the House ... BUT ... not the QURAN !

Because Allah Said:

Indeed, it is We who sent down the Qur'an and indeed, We will be its guardian. [إِنَّا نَحْنُ نَزَّلْنَا الذِّكْرَ وَإِنَّا لَهُ لَحَافِظُونَ]

Surah Hijir, Verse 9

Tickets To Jannah

 In The Name Of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.
 Ticket Type : One Way
 Price : Absolutely Free (Booking Confirmed)

Passenger Details 

 Name : One of the Children of Adam
 Origins : From clay
 Address : Planet Earth

Conditions of Travel

 Departure : From life on earth
 Destination : Eternal life
 Stop-over : Hotel (2 meters under the ground, for one person)
 Duration of flight : From couple of seconds to several millions of years

Departure Time

 Time of death : Exact time is unknown (but it can happen earlier than   expected)
 Arrival time: On the Judgement Day (not specified in the timetable)

Information about Interrogation

On the arrival to the hotel (grave): Incorruptible Auditors - two angels: Munkar & Nakir, will immediately start questioning.

Three questions will be asked

 1. Who is your GOD?
 2. Who is your Prophet?
 3. What is your religion?
 Questions will follow about your life on earth. For more information, refer to 27th Ayat of Surah ‘Ibrahim’ of the Holy Quran.

Luggage 

 1. Despite the fact that the air transfers only one passenger at a time, there are some restrictions on the amount of baggage that you can take with you.
 2. You can take with you 5 meters of white cloth.
 3. Any items of material life of earth are strictly forbidden.
 4. Realistic luggage should consist of good deeds, modest behavior and of well spent time on calling people to Islam.

Important instructions

 - All the passengers should remember that tickets are not exchangeable refundable.
 - This journey is compulsory for representatives of all races, nationalities, religions and of all ages.
 - Delays are not stipulated.

Captain 

Angel of Death will not compromise on changing the date and time of departure.

For more information

Read instructions, which you can find in The Holy Qur’an and Sunnah, could also consult Alims (scholars). Please do it as soon as possible. During your journey you will not be provided with oxygen mask, as your breathing system will be terminated just before the departure time.

To prepare for a comfortable flight: 

 1. Pray 5 times a day
 2. Read the Holy Qur’an
 3. Follow the Sunnah to the best of your ability

Final warning 

Final destination depends on you! Please do not waste your time on planet earth. Remember, you have one-way ticket:, Either to Jahannam or Jannah. Hence read & practice the instructions from the manuals Qur’aan and Sunnah carefully and follow to reach Jannah.
Jannah

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Make your marriage successful


20 tips to make your marriage successful In’sha’Allah
1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together.
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